Not to be on the side of women who have backup lovers but women do this for some reasons and that I’d share
1. UNSURE OF THE MAN
When a woman has cause to doubt the love of her man then there is this
tendency that she would have that backup lover or lovers even because
her relationship isn’t stable enough. Backup lover serve as that extra
security to women in this kind of relationship as they know that
anything can happen at any time.
2. IF HE’S THE UNFAITHFUL TYPE
Most times, men would love to eat their cake and have it, but unlike
most people say, it’s actually not a man’s world. Men would cheat on
their partner and still expect the lady to be faithful and would also
cry out wolf when they suspect any sign that she’s actually cheating.
Women that have unfaithful male partner also tend to have a backup
partner, and to be fair, you shouldn’t blame them.
3. FLIRT
Same way some men love to flirt is same way some women out there also
love to flirt. Women that love to flirt would have as many backup lovers
as possible. To these kinds of women, they can easily call on that
backup lover as easy as dialling up 911. Even if they don’t have sexual
relations with the man, they would at least appreciate the fact that he
admires or wants to flirt with them.
4. VALUE
If a man doesn’t value his lady, if she isn’t sure of the future with
him, she would have the tendency to have that backup lover. Sometimes a
backup lover is even more romantic than the main lover, so she just
wouldn’t want to let go and lose out totally. Sometimes the backup lover
is more charming, caring, romantic and persuasive as well and this
would make the lady keep him as an available substitute.
These are the major reasons women have backup lovers and majority of
women out there would agree that having that backup lover would boost a
woman’s self-worth; however, this doesn’t change the fact that it’s an
act of insincerity.
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