1. Ms. Flirtatious: This one right here will win you
over with her seductive glances and her flattering words. But the
problem you’ll start noticing is that her flirting isn’t contained to
just you.
The glances she gives your waiter, the way talks to your
roommate, or the way she giggles flirtatiously at your best friends
jokes. It’s one thing to be flirtatious as an avenue of affection within
a relationship, it’s a whole other thing when you’re marked by your
flirtatious way. Recognize this one quickly, because what you see here
is what you’ll get.
2. Ms. I’m Sexy and I Know It: It’s great to have self-confidence
as a woman, but that’s not what I’m talking about here. In fact, this
woman often feels so insecure about herself, that she uses her body to
gain affirmation from men. In other words, she flaunts her stuff to
anyone who’s willing to look. While her seduction might draw you like a
magnet, you’ll quickly realize that it’s also drawing everyone else,
too.
3. Ms. Nothin’ In There But Air: One of the most beautiful things
about the early stages of relationship is the mystery involved. Little
by little you get to know one layer at a time, revealing heart, mind,
soul and spirit. But as you peel back the layers of this particular
woman, you’ll realize that…there isn’t too much there!
4. Ms. Gold-Digger: She loves your car, she loves your
career, and she loves your cash. But does she really like you? You’ll
recognize this one quickly, because she’ll take all she can get from
you, and give very little back in return. She’s looking for security
more than she’s looking for a significant relationship. Say bye-bye
before your cash runs out.
5. Ms. Wishy-Washy: A woman like this will take your
heart on quite a ride, because she doesn’t really know what she wants.
One moment she’s into you, and the other moment she’s confused and wants
to take a step back. This internal struggle is not going to be resolved
anytime soon, so do yourself a favor and find someone who’s just as
into you as you are into them.
6. Ms. Drama-Drama-Drama: Drama with her momma, drama with her
best friend, drama with her boss at work. This gal is characterized by
drama everywhere she goes, and she tells you all about it. But the drama
isn’t necessarily the dangerous part in this kind of woman, it’s the
underlying belief that it’s always everyone else’s fault. This woman is
to be avoided because she doesn’t understand the meaning of taking
ownership and responsibility of her life and relationships. And trust
me, that blame-game will quickly become a part of your relationship,
too.
7. Ms. Bossy: This one will micromanage your entire life. She’ll have an opinion about
how you should spend your money, chew your food, iron your clothes, and
maybe even how you should change your personality. The thing about this
woman is that she’s a control-freak. And one thing I know about control
freaks is that deep down, they feel like they have no control in some
area of their life, and so they take it out on their relationships
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