I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors
1. Asking a guy you just met for recharge card
This
is very annoying. It makes you look cheap. A guy met you in the
afternoon, gave you a call in the evening and you are already asking
him
to send you a recharge card. Trust me, that guy can never respect you.
He might eventually send you the recharge card, but the only thing on
his mind would be to sleep with you once or twice and get rid of you.
2. Judging a guy by his looks
I
believe guys should be the ones that should be hell bent on beauty and
physical appearance. Dont fall for a guy chiefly because he looks good
physically. You need to access his acumen, sense of judgment,
level-headedness, dreams etc. What makes a good guy is by far more than
just looks.
3. Having sex with a guy the day you met him
This
is uncalled for. You automatically lose some respect if you allow this
guy to get down with you the first day you met him. Little kisses here
and there and some cuddling would do, if you are tempted, let him feel
your bosoms just to get yourself wet. The longer you make a guy wait,
the more he will appreciate you and value your body. No one values what
he gets easily.
4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie
Do we have
to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I am guilty of this too and
am going to stop. Every picture of a girl on facebook shows her pouting
her lips to look pretty. This doesn't make us look prettier; it only
make us look childish. I didnt realise it makes me look like a kid until
my boyfriend told me 5 days ago.
5. Manipulating a guy to over spend for you on a date.
Because
he looks rich and came to the eatery in a car makes you feel you can
drain his pocket abi. This instantaneously tells the guy that you are a
hungry girl and from a very poor background. Cant you just order for
just one ice cream or a soft drink and be fine with this cool dude. Even
if you do not like him, do not do this. Trust me, the guy will never
call you again and if he does he only wants to get laid just once. The
worst is taking your friend along so that you can both finish him.
6. Forcing yourself on a guy that doesn't give a damn about you
If
a guy likes you, he will show it. Dont you ever force yourself on a
guy. You can indicate some green lights but don't force yourself on him.
If you do he will treat you like poo. I have read some post here on
Nairaland telling girls how to woo a guy. Dont try it. There are a
million subtle ways to make him see that you like him than forcing
yourself on him and asking him out outrightly.
7. Keeping too many boyfriends
Cant we just be cool with one guy we love? 8 boyfriends equals to 8 Joysticks. Jesus Christ! How many guys are combing you?
8. Excessive Make Up
Excessive
make up make us look like masquerades, ojuju calabar like Tiwa Savage.
Trust me, guys dont like girls with excessive make-ups. I have heard
guys say it more than a thousand times how much they hate excessive make
up on ladies. Look natural and if you must apply make ups, make it very
lite.
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