If you’re on a date with a girl or
have started dating a girl recently, keep an eye on these 10 types of
girlfriends who’ll make your life a living hell. If you see these traits
in the girl, point it out at a convenient time and talk about it with
her.
But if she can’t change these bad
girlfriend traits, you may be setting yourself up for a frustrating
relationship that’ll take you nowhere but downhill over the coming
months!
#1 The extremely clingy girl. When
a girl is addicted to you or loves you a lot, it’s obvious that she’d
want to spend a lot of time with you. But has your girlfriend crossed
the thin line separating ‘want to be with you’ and ‘can’t do anything
without you’?
When a girlfriend gets too clingy,
or wants you to be involved in every little thing she does, she may not
realize it herself, but she’d start to suffocate you. And most
importantly, she’ll stop growing as an individual, and would end up as a
boring extension of you. And that’ll leave you annoyed, and leave her
more confused than ever about why you’re distancing yourself from her.
#2 The obsessive possessive girlfriend. Your
girlfriend’s possessiveness could seem flattering at first, but if she
hates it when you do anything without her, or go out anywhere with your
own friends, you may start to hate that side of her for it without
realizing it. And a girlfriend who’s possessive would always feel
insecure each time you meet another girl, even if it’s just a friend.
And before you know it, both of you would be fighting every time you go
out or meet anyone.
#3 The runz girl. There are a
few girls who see you as a great guy who could introduce her to a
better world. You may be the guy who’s got a lot of connections, or the
guy who’s cooler than everyone else. And she may believe that being seen
around you could open a lot of doors for her.
The relationship could start out
perfectly, but within a few dates, you may find that she’s more eager to
go out with your friends and have a nice time together than cozy up
with you on a romantic date. And as time goes by, once she’s used you as
a stepping stone and doesn’t need you anymore, she may even start to
ignore you or pick flaws all the time.
#4 The unapologetic girlfriend. Are
you dating a girl who just can’t apologize or admit her mistake? She
may apologize in jest for trivial things, but for the things that really
matter, she would prefer to give you the silent treatment than accept
her fault.
This is a scary kind of girl to
date, because she may seem like a sweet girl who’s a lot of fun. But in
reality, she may be extremely egoistic and she would break you rather
than accept defeat in front of you. She believes she can never make
mistakes, and she’s too proud to ever admit to a mistake. And
considering the fact that giving in to each other now and then is a big
and important part of a happy relationship, you’d just be walking into a
trap where you’re the only one hurt and feeding her ego all the time.
#5 The whiner. This kind of a
bad girlfriend always whines. She complains and never has anything
positive to add to the conversation. She talks about how bad her work
is, how sad her life is, and how depressed she always is. If your
girlfriend can’t ever just see the bright or happy side of anything,
she’s probably too negative. And her negativity will rub off on you and
you’d feel drained and tired each time you meet her.
#6 The confused girlfriend. This
is the type of girlfriend who just doesn’t know what she wants. She’s
always confused between choices and is almost always unsure about any
decision she takes.
She even flirts with other guys
constantly and probably sees you as the standby boyfriend who she calls
when she’s not getting attention from anyone else. And the worst part is
that she may even ditch you for another guy if she finds someone better
than you. Dating this kind of a girl will leave you weak and shattered,
and it’ll be a big blow to your self confidence because no matter how
good you are, she’d always want something more.
#7 The dominating and demanding girlfriend. She’s
the kind of girl who full of expectations and demands all the time.
She’s a control freak and always wants things done her way. She’s bossy
and expects you to do as she says all the time. You may be a nice guy
who cares for his girl, but for this kind of a girlfriend, that’s not
enough. She loves being bossy and wants to control your life and
everything in it.
#8 The too opinionated girlfriend. Opinions
are good, and opposing opinions can even be healthy at times. But this
type of a girlfriend takes it too far. She’s got her own opinions and
she’s too rigid to change it no matter what you say, or even if she’s
wrong. She changes her mind only when she wants to, or if her friends
convince her. But no matter how hard you try, she just doesn’t trust
your opinions or suggestions.
#9 The sneaky snoop. She
snoops on you all the time, the very second she gets an opportunity to
do so. You may be loyal and truthful, but she still sees a reason to
doubt your intentions all the time. She spies on you, looks through your
cell phone, and calls and interrogates your friends even if you say you
were late because you had to meet a friend. She won’t trust you because
she probably has trust issues, and unless you’re okay with her constant
doubts and interrogations, avoid dating a girl who never trusts you.
It’s not healthy for a happy relationship.
#10 The fighter. This
girl is scary when she gets angry. Her face reddens with rage and she
quivers like she’s going to explode. She may even punch you on your face
or make a scene when she gets angry because she’s probably too hot
tempered and all she sees is red when she gets angry.
If you can tread around her hot temper, that’s good for you. But if you just want to be yourself and not cower in fear each time she gets angry, stay away from this girl.
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